Quick Guide to Bondage & BDSM

Bondage is the practice of consensually tying, binding, or restraining a partner for erotic stimulation. Getting a little kinky can heat up your sex life with tantalising sensory stimulation and ever since the Fifty Shades phenomenon and Rihanna singing about S&M, fetish, bondage and BDSM are more openly popular than ever!

Every tickle, spank and stroke will drive your senses wild. As light or as rough as you like is up to you, tie up and tease with erotic bondage toys and accessories from blindfolds to whips and nipple clamps.

Bondage or BDSM are terms that are loosely used to cover anything that seems a kinky or 'hardcore' so lets breakdown what they actually mean:

Basically, BDSM is erotic role-play featuring any combination of Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadomasochism. These are made from all kinds of erotic role play from spanking your partner for being 'naughty', hair pulling, using restraints, biting and clamping. We mustn't forget the highly erotically charged power play where you maybe a naughty secretary and your boss needs to 'deal' with you. All of these scenarios relay on one of you being the Sub and one being the Dom. 

If you are the Dom, you are the 'top' dominant partner doing the pulling, whipping and tying. As the sub you are the 'bottom' submissive one being spanked, blindfolded, gagged, teased and tied up. switch around see which you both prefer.... you may need to take turns!

Whatever you chose to do and how ever far you chose to go with BDSM, use common sense and make sure you sub has a safe word to stop the play whenever they want.

Need help deciding on the best restraints to use - see our guide here